A Doula Right at Your Fingertips | St. Louis Childbirth Educator & Virtual Doula
- Brianna Oliver
- Feb 8
- 3 min read

What is a Virtual Doula?
Doulas have supported expecting families in person for years, but thanks to modern advances, you now have compassionate, evidence-based support right at your fingertips! Enter the virtual doula — your birth BFF, ready to guide you through pregnancy, birth, and postpartum with confidence and calm.
What is a Virtual Doula?
A virtual doula is a trained professional who provides continuous emotional, educational, and informational support to expecting families—all through virtual platforms. Whether via video calls, phone support, text, or emails, a virtual doula is your birth BFF, guiding you through the journey with evidence-based knowledge and unwavering encouragement.
While they aren’t physically present during your labor, virtual doulas are just a call or text away, offering personalized support tailored to your unique birth preferences, no matter where you are in the world.
How Can a Virtual Doula Help?
Prenatal Support:
Your pregnancy is filled with excitement, questions, and sometimes, uncertainty. A virtual doula helps you feel grounded by:
Creating Your Birth Plan: We help you understand your options, from labor positions to interventions, empowering you to make informed choices that align with your values.
Evidence-Based Education: We break down the science behind birth, demystify common practices, and ensure you’re prepared for every stage.
Emotional Support: Pregnancy can stir a range of emotions. We’re here to listen, validate your feelings, and help manage any fears around birth.
Comfort Measures Coaching: Teaching you and your partner techniques like breathing exercises, visualization, and partner-supported positions to practice before the big day.
Support During Birth:
Labor can be unpredictable, but your virtual doula remains a constant source of support:
Real-Time Guidance: Through video calls, texts, or phone support, we offer continuous encouragement, suggest coping strategies, and help your partner support you effectively.
Advocacy Coaching: While we can’t speak directly to medical staff, we coach you on communicating your needs confidently, ensuring your birth plan is respected.
Reassurance: Whether you’re at home or in a hospital, having someone to remind you of your strength and guide you through each contraction can be incredibly grounding.
Postpartum Support:
Birth is just the beginning. The postpartum period, often called the "fourth trimester," comes with its own set of challenges and joys. Your virtual doula supports you by:
Emotional Check-Ins: We’re here to process your birth experience, celebrate your milestones, and hold space for your feelings.
Breastfeeding Basics: Need help with latch techniques or navigating cluster feeding? We provide guidance to set you up for breastfeeding success.
Postpartum Planning: Offering advice on newborn care, sleep, and how to manage postpartum recovery with realistic, gentle expectations.
Resource Referrals: If you need specialized care, like lactation consultants or mental health support, we’ll connect you with trusted professionals.
Why Choose a Virtual Doula?
Accessibility: No matter where you live, you can receive expert support.
Flexible Communication: Reach out when you need it most, without waiting for in-person appointments.
Partner Involvement: We coach your partner to be an active, confident support person, strengthening your birth team.
Final Thoughts
A virtual doula is more than just a voice on the other end of the line—we are your advocate, educator, and emotional anchor. Whether you’re planning a hospital birth, home birth, or something in between, having a virtual doula ensures you’re never alone on this transformative journey.
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